Author Archive

Are you single or living alone? You are not alone on that one!

Mar 14 2013

Claudia Connell on Mail Online gives a painfully honest account of how she came to be living alone in middle-age: Now in her 40?s, Claudia talks of how her single life, which was once embraced and celebrated for its exciting perks, has lost its gloss.

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You are stronger than you think…

Nov 27 2012

Just like the picture, finding your strength and realising your attributes are found through the struggles and the pain in life. Not when things are easy and you FEEL you are at your strongest. It is through the weak moments that you learn and become stronger because of those circumstances. A bag of Tea may look exactly the same as every other teabag in the box and you can make your judgements and assume which is the strongest, but you will never know or understand until it is placed in the hot water and you experience it and taste it for yourself.

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NO FAULT DIVORCE – what does this mean to us?

Jul 14 2012

The UK laws of divorce have not been reformed since their introduction in 1969. However there was a move and introduction to No – Fault Divorce shortly after 1970. 

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The REAL cost of divorce

Jun 20 2012

Divorce in many cases is becoming a fast route to poverty.

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Some Principles of Keeping Love Alive…

Apr 24 2012

I am sometimes really frustrated that the education system today does not prepare us for what it TRULY takes to make a romantic relationship work in the long-term. I wish that I had known some of these principles before I got married. Unfortunately I had to make all the mistakes before I learnt all of these lessons for the future. I had to develop some compassion for myself because I really didn’t have the insights I have today back when I actually needed them.

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